Saturday, May 23, 2009

You're not sorry

One used to tell me " Past is a History which you cannot change it anymore, Tomorrow is a Mystery which you cannot predict, Today is a gift and we called it as the Present, the only day that you can a plan and make a different in your life. " Time flies because today is the second last week of May, how many of us really live in the present? Enjoying himself without looking back to the past? It is hard to think about the present when you know that you did something hurtful to someone in the past.


I'm sorry, the sentence that commonly misused by everyone nowadays. Ok, it is right to say " I'm sorry " when you did something wrong but do you really mean it when you say "I'm sorry" to the other party? A lot of people use it without knowing the true meaning. It is just a habit for them to say "I'm sorry" no matter what happen without realizing that by saying this sentence means that you are really apologizing.

  • Being cruel to someone, say "I'm sorry"
  • Late for meeting, say "I'm sorry"
  • Unwilling to help people that need help, say "I'm sorry"
Saying "I'm sorry" has become an easy way for us to run away from punishments and troubles that we made by ourselves.

When we become aware of all the little things around, we make a conscious approach to every activity, we unable ourselves to mindful activity. Being mindful of everything, we will put an end to this shallow way of saying sorry.

For me, sorry means Sincerely Offers an apology Right from my heart when I Realized I did something that hurt You.

I guess sometimes we do not realize how many people we hurt per day but humans do make mistake. So to avoid saying "I'm sorry", we should not do anything that will lead us to feel regretful.

© the vanilla villain Vivian

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